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Week of Thanks: My Boys
I am sure you have noticed by now that Thanksgiving is upon us. As we enter into this season I have noticed that Thanksgiving has taken a back seat in our culture; this holiday is no longer about giving thanks but about buying stuff at a discounted rate.
Instead of spending a few posts ranting about all of this, I want to do the opposite. I am going to give thanks, and I invite you along with me on this week long journey. I plan to post once a day for the next week, each day describing something I am thankful for in my life. These are not in any specific order – I am thankful for all of them (mostly) on an equal level.
I am thankful for my Boys
I have written about my 3 boys before, about the challenges and advantages of raising them while working full time in the church. Check it out if you are interested. I absolutely love being a Dad!
I am thankful that we made it through the baby stage. No more night feedings. No more diapers. No more 5-point harness car seats, No more guessing what is wrong, they can just tell us now.
I am thankful that our house is rarely quiet. We have lots of company, but even when it’s just our family our house is loud, and I am completely OK with it.
I am thankful that my Spiritual leadership isn’t just at church. I get to teach my own kids about the Bible and how to do life God’s way, what a privilege.
I am thankful that I have boys. I really wanted a Daddy’s little girl, but at least as of now I don’t have one. I am thankful that this world will have three more men that will respect women, respect God, try their hardest, and do the right thing.
I am thankful that my understanding of who God is and His love is greater because of them. I loved my boys before I ever saw them, I care deeply about them just because of who they are, and nothing they do (or don’t do) will change that. I know God loves me (and them) more than I love them–which seems impossible but still true.
I am thankful for the fun we have together. Whether it’s wrestling with them, playing a board game, video games, going to the lake, going snowboarding, or whatever we have a lot of fun together! I am still better than them at most things, but I know that isn’t going to last for long…and I am thankful for that too.
My boys definitely can be frustrating sometimes, but they are a huge blessing. Thank you Lord for the tremendous gift!!